Reason for Delay in Marriage for women
1. BOY-FRIEND
The last thing on a Boy's Mind is Marriage.
Boys don't think of marriage, they want to make money first, they enter into relationship just for fun and sex, that's why if the lady should get pregnant, they ask her to abort it, or they'll deny her, because they aren't ready for Marriage and it's responsibilities.
Stop Dating BOY.
Boyfriends will keep scaring away serious and well-meaning suitors because they'll be thinking that the boyfriend that always hangs around you actually wants to marry you.
2. PROMISE (ENGAGEMENT)RING💍
This is that spirit that makes you keep raising your finger to show the world that one young man has engaged you and when the serious suitors that are ready to settle down sees the ring, they'll pass over you because the ring tells them you have been taken.
And time is going, uncle isn't saying anything again, the ring itself has started to rust on your finger in protest.
Many promised rings are actually handcuffs, some are not better than key holders.
Aunty, say no to Lord of the Rings.
3. SPIRIT OF PRIDE
That spirit that tells you to always talk to brothers anyhow because you are beautiful, educated, and anointed.
That spirit that tells you that every brother that greets you is not your class, so you keep ignoring and looking down on them.
That spirit that doesn't allow you to greet brothers except those that ride exotic cars.
Aunty, calm down and be humble.
You won't marry yourself oh.....
4. POOR DRESS SENSE
That spirit that tells you not to dress well because you are going to heaven. Special Heavenly candidate. You dress and add 10 years to your age.
You dress and brothers will be greeting you "Good afternoon Madam." "Yes Madam" "Thank you Ma"
This spirit tells you to use tarpaulin to sew your dress, wear green skirt, yellow blouse and lemon head tie. You are a lady but dress like a man; Sister, no Man wants to marry his fellow man.
You dress like masquerade that is going to town. Dress well, don't under dress and don't over dress. Dress modestly, smell good because it's not a sin. We said don't dress indecently, we never said don't dress well.
6. DENOMINATIONAL/TRIBAL SPIRIT
I am a Catholic and must marry a Catholic.
I'm a Deeper Lifer and must marry one who's a Deeper Lifer as well so our marriage will be deep.
I am a Redeemer and must marry a Redeemer, any other Brother isn't Redeemed. Even if God is leading you to him. I'm from Ghana 🇬🇭 or Nigeria 🇳🇬 and must marry from River state. River will soon carry you.
This spirit has kept many bound until they entered menopause and are about to join the Women's fellowship because of their age.
Aunty, please understand that every believer is from one tribe called Christ. If God is leading you to another denomination, kindly obey Him, stop delaying yourself by yourself.
7. HARD TO GET
This spirit tells you not to accept a marriage proposal in a hurry, to do plenty unnecessary shakara so that the brother will not think you are cheap or desperate.
It tells you to tell him to give you nine months to pray, don't pick his calls, ignore his WhatsApp messages, behave as if you are not interested even though you are dying on the inside and truly love the brother.
This spirit will not leave you until you hear the brother is getting married to another sister, then your eyes will open and you will start saying "can't he even wait for me?"
Wait for you? Because you are Jesus Christ?
Aunty, If you love the brother and you perceive he is God's will for you, accept the proposal and leave Matter for Matthias.
8. SPIRITUAL PROBLEM
This is for real, this is why I encourage everyone to be prayerful, prayer isn't only for Pastors, Things are happening. Be spiritual
There are people whose marriages have been hijacked in spirit realms and only prayers and God can break such yokes.
9. BAD CHARACTER
The character of some ladies shocks even the devil. They will open their mouth to insult someone and you will cry for the person..
They quarrel and fight in public, no shame, self respect and dignity.
Their pride, their arrogance, their attitude, all the brothers are running, sorry, FLEEING from them like ants running away from fire. Who wan die?
This spirit has kept many ladies single, by the time any brother gets close because of her beautiful MASCARA, her CHARACTER will chase him away.
By Pastor of House 3:16 located inside Jos Amusement Park Jos Nigeria.
Pastor Roy Matthew
