Dear Future Husband

Dear Future Husband!!!

I know you are Created so handsome to my thirst and not to the thirst of every lady that sees you,

I know that you will need good food to eat so I learnt as many foods as I can and I will never stop learning different ways of cooking different foods,

I know that the bible says in ''Ephesians 5:22-24 to be submissive to my own husband as a reverenced to Christ''.

So I learnt to trust God everyday,no matter the situation I find myself,

I will always trust God so that He will help me trust my husband and be submissive and respective to him,

I know that life can be so rough because it is not the bed of roses,

So I learnt to be contented with what I have and manage what I have very well,

I know that Appreciation leads to More energy to do more,so I learnt to appreciate every little thing that anybody does to me,

I know that prayer is important,so I learn to pray in season and out of season and also learn to fast,so that when I get married to you it will not be a new thing,

In Genesis 2 the bible says ''the two shall become one flesh''

So I train myself not to hide anything from you,

I know that my beauty will fade,and my character is what you are going to live with,

So I make sure I deal with any bad character in me daily,

I know that you will fall sick sometimes,so I pray for the grace to care and show love to my love ones when they need me most,

 I know that you will need me to look good for you,so I try my best to always look beautiful,

I know that you love seeing surroundings clean so I make sure I clean my surroundings and make sure there are no dirt's in my domin,

In 

Timothy 2:11 the bible says;

Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness.

So I train myself to listen quietly when you are talking,

I know that sometimes misunderstanding may occur between us so I learnt to say sorry,

I know that you will always love to  introduced your wife  anywhere you go,

So I learn to always compose myself and look good to give you boldness,

I know that doing all of those things without love is all in vain,

So I read in the bible in 

1 John 4:16

''God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him...".

So I learnt to love God everyday, so I will love you as I love God,

Since God is love the more of God I have everyday determine the level of love I will have for you.

I know that we will have kids one day,

So with God helping me,

I try my best to be the best role model they will have and the best first mentor they will have,

I don't want a situation whereby my children will be ashamed to be like me,but I want them to be like me and do more exploit than me,

So I am open to learning positive things that will build our home and make us stronger.

I want you to know that,I am not a perfect woman,I have my short comings,

but I will keep working on them to get better daily,

Lastly as you are looking and waiting for a strong woman build yourself to be a strong man too,

So that together we move mountains without stress.

Dear Future Husband

I love you and I pray to meet you soon.

@jaysteve

CHRISTIAN WEDDINGS

Sometimes I wander if God is really happy with the kind of weddings we do these days.

We start a very good wedding in the Church with good gospel songs that will uplift your Spirit,then after the Church wedding,We go out for the reception and have circular songs played all through the wedding reception and I tend to wander,Who are we deceiving or mocking?
Are we trying to say that we come to church for wedding so that God will bless us and after that we go for reception and forgot about Him because we have His blessings?
No wander after the marriage ceremony the wife and husband goes home and open some gifts,and got enchanted by the divination of the enemy because,God is fully not in it and we forgot that if He is not fully in it,then He is not in it completely because,our God wants to be fully involved in what we do,but we often push Him aside and if you push Him aside;
Won't you have problems in your wedding?
One of the reason for hatred and problems that leads to divorce in today's marriage is because God is not fully involved, So expect the unexpected!!!.
And I wander if a party guy comes to our wedding receptions,will they feel as if they are in the party or they will feel they are in a Christian wedding Reception?
They always feel no deference because if they come,they are sure is the same disco songs and sounds they are used to in a party hall,in the night clubs they go and some snick to go that they will hear in the Reception, So what is the difference?

Remembered that we are to be Christ imitators in what so ever we do and everything we are doing.
And to Reflect the great commissioned by going into the world and preach to every creature,baptizing them and making them disciples of all nations.
Where is the great commissioned place today in our weddings friends?

You have live band and Christian songs,so what is your excuse?

We don't patronized our own style that is why the world don't also patronise it.