Is it good for men to marry early now?

Is_it_good_for_men_to_marry_early_now?

There Men,

I just want to tell you the advantage of marrying early.

If you marry early,you and your family will grow old together in such a way that you will have the opportunity of training your children when you are strong and not too weak,

You can imagine you marry at 40 years and when your first child is 10 years old you are 50 years old,

You go to PTA meeting to represent your second born or third born and they think you are a grand father that came to represent your child,

Do you think it will make sense?

Marrying early is good because you don't know when you will die,

If you check very well people hardly reach 80 years this days,

And if you consider your wife at least you will marry early so that you will not come and die and leave her with children to feed as a widow,

Men in Nigeria feel they have time that is why most of them don't get to plan their lives at early age until they reached 35 and late 30`s  to come,

Marrying early also gives you the advantage of being friends with your kids and getting to advice them better because they will not feel your time had pass,so they will listen to you.

Is high time you start planning your life early and not late,

Even if you are not going to marry on time,

I want you to plan your life early Men,

So that you will enjoy your life,

Your parents will enjoy you,your siblings,friends,locality, society and nation will enjoy you effectively.

So men,

The motion thinking,

that is ladies that have time should stop because you also don't have time.

If you check it very well some ladies are even doing better than the men now adays,

Do you know why, because they feel they don't have time so they redeem their time to achieve alot in a short time period but you guys feel you have time and you start late and achieve below what you are suppose to achieve.

Your youthful age is the age you should achieve alot not the age you should be playing and thinking you have time because time waits for no one.

So plan early and marry early,so you train your children while you are young and not as a grandfather.

Make sure you share this so that mentality of  many men will be affected.

@jaysteve

HEROINE

HEROINE

She puts on the full armor of God,

to pray for her immediate family,friends,neighbour and her Future.

She studies very hard to pass her exams,

She knows her identity in Who she served,

She is focus and flee from gossip and backbite,

She has some much wisdom in her speech,

She corrects in love and not harshly,

She visits the Hospital to gist and pray with the sick,

She visit the orphanage and prisons to put a smile on there faces,

She is always ready to learn new things to improve herself,

She is recognized because of her good conduct and saying the truth,

She does not exposed herself to any man to devalue her,

She is always looking for solution to peoples problems,even if it will curse her pains or her life

She is soldier,with a different.

She is the lady that is reading this,yes you are the; 

  #Heroine

@jaysteve

People ask why?

#PEOPLE_ASK_WHY?

Why is it that good guys end up with bad ladies and bad ladies end up with good guys?

And is it possible for a good guy to end up with good lady if yes why?

The reason why bad guys end up with good ladies and vice  versal is because though bad guys/ladies are bad but they are real to themselves, a bad guy will not see a good girl looking Beautiful then he will hold his comments and same to the bad ladies,They say what they feel and tell you what they see,so at the end they end up together, even though one party will still be boring to the other party.

Secondly it is possible for a good guy/good lady to be in relationship and end well,Do you know why?

Because of openness and being real not fake in the relationship.

If the good guy sees that his babe or wife is looking good,he should pour all the lyrics without holding some and if the good lady sees that the guy is good she should also pour all the lyrics she knows on the guy,Stop using Religion to kill your relationship, like 

Ahhh

If I told her what I feel she will say I am bad and if I tell him what I feel he will say I am bad.

Listen Christianity teaches us to be real and not fake and also to be open. Why do you pray and tell God all the good words you know then it will come to your relationship with people or your boyfriend/girlfriend or wife/husband and you lie to yourself. 

Truth keeps relationship and make it fun but lie tears down relationship.

If we correct ourselves and always be truthful am telling you we will not be sad.

See Solomon in the bible now, and read songs of Solomon and you will see where Solomon and His queens are exchanging lyrics.

#happy_a_Christian

@jaysteve

Are_Ladies_important?

Are_Ladies_important?

God call a woman a suitable Helper for Adam.

Reason is because;

Among all of creation apart from God only a woman gives man joy

A woman is the best companion of a man

No matter how man cooks well,He prefers that of a woman

No matter how many guys complement a man,one complement from a woman makes all the complements worth the complements, thereby amplifying the complements

A woman can stand in the gap for her family and God will hear

A woman makes the home worthwhile

A woman supports her husband where he can't reached

A woman can make a guy to be responsible

A woman can make a guy to be irresponsible

A woman can make a church grow and a woman can make the church die

A woman can make a nation good and can crumble a nation 

A woman is powerful in her place and a guy is also powerful is his place

God brought the two for greater achievement and not destruction.

In as much as Women are weaker vessels, they have there role to play in the making of the society and country to the world at large.

#happy_a_Christian

@jaysteve

WHY MEN ARE SPECIAL

In the beginning God created a Garden call Eden,

Then God created a man and put him to control everything inside that garden,
Man had a good fellowship with God everyday of his life,
Man is an icon the world needs today,
because
Without a Man the development of the world will not take place,

A man is the Priest of His home,
A man is a carrier of generations,
In man the works of the world are made beautiful,

Men are strugglers,
Men are fighters,
Men are defenders,
Men are critical  thinkers,
Men are lovers of God,

Men are the backbone of every society,
With the blood of Men does a city have its stands,

Men are agent of change.

Many Ladies today don't know the kind of risk and sacrifice Men do for the sake of their love for them,

Many ladies don't know how men suffer to give them that little comfort they are complaining is not enough,

Listen ladies,
All fingers are not equal,

Learn to appreciate the men in your life,

When you appreciate the men in your life,
They will naturally do more,

But if you keep complaining,
They will go and do the wrong thing just to make you happy and at the end you will still be at the receiving end,

Ladies Respect your Men and pray for them if you really want the best from them,

Men are Special beings that you ladies can't do without because you need them.

Kudos to all men out there,
God bless all men and
May all men live a purposeful life.

#If_men_are_not_special_and_important_then_you_will_not_see_one_today

@jaysteve

ARE LADIES IMPORTANT...

God call a woman a suitable Helper for Adam.

Reason is because;
Among all of creation apart from God only a woman gives man joy

A woman is the best companion of a man

No matter how man cooks well,He prefers that of a woman

No matter how many guys complement a man,one complement from a woman makes all the complements worth the complements, thereby amplifying the complements

A woman can stand in the gap for her family and God will hear

A woman makes the home worthwhile

A woman supports her husband where he can't reached

A woman can make a guy to be responsible

A woman can make a guy to be irresponsible

A woman can make a church grow and a woman can make the church die

A woman can make a nation good and can crumble a nation

A woman is powerful in her place and a guy is also powerful is his place

God brought the two for greater achievement and not destruction.

In as much as Women are weaker vessels, they have there role to play in the making of the society and country to the world at large.