Value

Each human being has Value.

Is good to be with people that add value to your life and you add value to theirs,

Sometimes you have to go out of that circle so that you add value to those that will not be able to add value to you but at least they will say God bless you which is the value.

But being around those people that want to drain your value so that you worship them or be in same value with them is actually not good.

Because such people are liabilities to you or will want you to be a liability to them so they control you.

So in as much as you want to share value,

Don't be too emotional about it,

Be calculative and see it clear that you do not drain yourself and come back to built that value again.

Think well before you act.

Always weigh the good and the bad site of the action you are about to take before you move.

@jaysteve

YOU CALL HIM BROKE GUY

BROKE_Guy

You called him broke guy,

But he has never come to you and say please I need a trouser,

He has never come to you and say my dear,please give me food I have not eaten for 2 days,

He has never come to your place and say my dear,I don't have gas and I don't have pocket money,

You called him broke guy,

But he has never take you on a date without paying the bills,

He has never allow you to enter Keke without payment of the bills,

He always tries to call you everyday and text you everyday,

Yet!

You call him broke guy,

You call him broke guy,

Because he was unable to give you all you ask for,

You call him broke guy because you compare him with other men asking you out,

You called him broke guy because you try to make him dance to your own style of music,

But he was sincere enough to tell you this is who I am and this is what I can afford,

You called him broke guy because he doesn't have all the fancy things you've projecting the guy you are dating should have,

Hey lady,

Can't you see that your definition of a broke guy is totally selfish and greedy,

You are meant to compliment the one you love and not to discourage and reduce him to to nothing,

If he can't pay the bills,why can't you pay the bills and teach him how to become better,

Stop condemning the guy,

Simply because he can't meet up with your definition of a guy to date,

All the reason you have that makes you call him a broke guy,

Why can't you teach him or be as rich as the imagination of a rich guy you have in your head,

You need to know that all fingers are not equal,

The least you can do is to encourage that guy to do better and not to Castigate him to ground.

You called him a broke guy but the last time I check,

He feeds himself,

Pays his bills,clothed himself and still move with his pocket money,

What about you?

Can he call you a broke girl or a lazy girl,

Or an extractor of his sweat or a liability?

Why cant you allow him call you my motivator or my Asset.

Kudos to guys out there because my fellow men are trying and they are not lazy.

@jaysteve

Dear Future Wife

Dear Future Wife

I live every moment thinking about you,

I know that God never make a mistake in your creation,

You are specially designed to fit your purpose in life,

You are fearfully and wonderfully made to suite us as one body in Christ,

Knowing the responsibility on my head as the head of the family 

Colossians 3:19 says;

Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.

I learn to love God,and God teach me how to love you and not be harsh to you,

In 1 Peter 3:7 

I am meant to live with you in understanding and honouring you as a weaker vessel so that my prayer will not be hindered. 

So I learn to listen and learn to honour you since the two are now one as the bible says,

You are part of me, so I make sure I tried my best to fix the room with all the things you need before you come,

I make sure the house I am living is comfortable and suited to you before you come,

I make sure I develop time to worship with God nor matter my type of work I do,so that I will make time for you and our unborn kids,

I make sure I love you as I love my body,

The bible says in

Hebrews 13:4

Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

So I make sure I exercise self control in my personal life so that I will not defile my marriage with adultery or immoral act,

I live my life praying for you daily to live right,

I live my life appreciating God for you in advance,

I want to lead our home to heaven,

I want every member of my family to make heaven,

So I always sat down at Jesus feet to learn,

I always surrender to Jesus to take whole of me,

I learn to provide for my family as God provides for me,

I learn to be open with you as I am open with God,

We will be traveling out to have fun,

We will be going outing to have good time,

Going to watch films together and going out to watch some games and doing some exercise together,

I will wake you up every morning with I love you,

I will do my best to make sure our home is filled with new things everyday,

I understand that is not all about the money,but is all about a happy home too,

So no matter the stress I will make time for my family,

I want you to know that I pray for you and I am daily working and getting ready to meet you,

I am not perfect but I believe in God we will be make perfect,

Dear Future Wife

I love you and I pray for you.

@jaysteve

Dear Future Husband

Dear Future Husband!!!

I know you are Created so handsome to my thirst and not to the thirst of every lady that sees you,

I know that you will need good food to eat so I learnt as many foods as I can and I will never stop learning different ways of cooking different foods,

I know that the bible says in ''Ephesians 5:22-24 to be submissive to my own husband as a reverenced to Christ''.

So I learnt to trust God everyday,no matter the situation I find myself,

I will always trust God so that He will help me trust my husband and be submissive and respective to him,

I know that life can be so rough because it is not the bed of roses,

So I learnt to be contented with what I have and manage what I have very well,

I know that Appreciation leads to More energy to do more,so I learnt to appreciate every little thing that anybody does to me,

I know that prayer is important,so I learn to pray in season and out of season and also learn to fast,so that when I get married to you it will not be a new thing,

In Genesis 2 the bible says ''the two shall become one flesh''

So I train myself not to hide anything from you,

I know that my beauty will fade,and my character is what you are going to live with,

So I make sure I deal with any bad character in me daily,

I know that you will fall sick sometimes,so I pray for the grace to care and show love to my love ones when they need me most,

 I know that you will need me to look good for you,so I try my best to always look beautiful,

I know that you love seeing surroundings clean so I make sure I clean my surroundings and make sure there are no dirt's in my domin,

In 

Timothy 2:11 the bible says;

Let a woman learn quietly with all submissiveness.

So I train myself to listen quietly when you are talking,

I know that sometimes misunderstanding may occur between us so I learnt to say sorry,

I know that you will always love to  introduced your wife  anywhere you go,

So I learn to always compose myself and look good to give you boldness,

I know that doing all of those things without love is all in vain,

So I read in the bible in 

1 John 4:16

''God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him...".

So I learnt to love God everyday, so I will love you as I love God,

Since God is love the more of God I have everyday determine the level of love I will have for you.

I know that we will have kids one day,

So with God helping me,

I try my best to be the best role model they will have and the best first mentor they will have,

I don't want a situation whereby my children will be ashamed to be like me,but I want them to be like me and do more exploit than me,

So I am open to learning positive things that will build our home and make us stronger.

I want you to know that,I am not a perfect woman,I have my short comings,

but I will keep working on them to get better daily,

Lastly as you are looking and waiting for a strong woman build yourself to be a strong man too,

So that together we move mountains without stress.

Dear Future Husband

I love you and I pray to meet you soon.

@jaysteve

FOR LOVE AND BEAUTY

The Star

It is bigger than the earth,

It makes the sky shiny,

It rays reached the face of the earth,

It is appeasing to eyes,

Catchy to the heart and enchanting to the mind,

You are the Star I see at night,

That grabs into my mind,

And makes me see you everyday,

Just by mere closing my eyes,

Boom!

I see you,

You are such an amazing personality with quality actions,

The Princess of her own kingdom,

Wearing the crown of gold and walking in different royal colours,

The way my hearts beats at the sound of your name is like a melody of a song that calm the soul of the listener,

You have capture me and put me in the direction of one woman is enough,

Anytime I hear your wonderful and amazing voice,

I feel like an ice has been dropped upon the fire of life I pass through,

You are one in million to me,

You are my heart code,

Sweetheart, lover and precious jewel.

I am happy to tell the world 

I love you and you meant a lot to me.

Thank you for accepting me My one and Only Love.

@jaysteve

RELATIONSHIP

A tire is always called a tire,and where so ever is seen by anyone,is still call a tire but the special thing about it all is they are all tires but they each have sizes and other features that distinct them from each other and therefore is only a foolish person that will for example;
1.carry a Trailer tire and put it for keke machine

2.carry a jinchin machine tire and put it for his/her jeep
3.carry a keke machine tire and put it in Toyota car

The example above shows that the person in question do that because,He/She refused to asked the manufacturer how to go about the car he bought,if the tire got bursted,and he also refused to read the manual to know what to do if the tire got any problem.

That is why today we have many Broken
-Relationships
-Marriages
-and Homes
Because a man/woman goes out a see a man/lady and just decided to get in a serious relationship without studying the bible to know themselves and ask God who created them whether they are meant for each other and because of that the devil used to have a hole to function in there relationship, marriages and homes.
Every guy/lady you see are all wonderfully and fearfully created by God,but the good news is only one is meant for the other,so that the two will become one in marriage. Simply because He/She looks like it does not means that He/she is the one for you.

Listen my brethren; the backbone of every strong relationship should be the God you serve because He created you and knows the best for you.
Let your decision be back up by the Heavens,By doing that,if you cry out to God if any storms comes He will help you even though the storms will shake the bout you are in but God will still give you victory.