TRUST (Does any human worth your Trust)?

#TRUST.

Sometimes I wonder if there is anybody worth trusting,

Knowing the fact that all humans that exist today are temporary beings upon the planet called Earth,

He/She are just living happy on their own,

Relationship have not yet crept into their minds,

Then all of a sudden they began to feel like having a boyfriend/girlfriend,

They all got into relationship,with the definition of marriage,

Even though not knowing how the journey will end,

In the beginning it was Wow!

Awesome!

The middle is full of doubt and fear,

They both forgot about their purpose of venturing into a relationship and kept on pushing blames on each other,

They kept fueling the their doubts and fears with the lies they tell each other,

Towards the end of the road,

One party says i can't go on and I can't do this any longer,

We are not compatible,

So let each go His/Her own way,

Trust is something that keeps a relationship,

Doubt and fear is the weapon of destruction of every relationship,

You need to learn to settle your issues,

Learn to face your fears,

Learn to focus on the purpose,

Many people says that if is not working you move away,

But they each move on but can't keep up with the new movement,

They lie to themselves,

They still love themselves but they still ignore it and keep moving and it kept on hurting them within,

If you are like that why can't you go back and make amend,

Is not bad to try but if you try and you see that you are not accepted back,

Just move on at least you've tried.

Learn to trust each other and also learn to be smart to solve issues arising,

Nothing is smooth in this life,

Everything is full of rough and smooth,

So you have learn to work it out.

@jaysteve

MY Story (Touching and hearty)

MY STORY

I breath the fresh breeze of nature each day,

I don't deserve it because is a gift from my creator,

My story is like a spring of water that kept flowing as far as,am alive,

I move each day with different obstacles and blocks,

This is my story;

Is full of up and down,

Sour and sweetness,

I move with a load of good and bad each day,

I met with people that affect me positively and negatively,

I struggle to live a life of positivity because I live in a world that is full of negative people,

I go out with friends to have good times not knowing their motives is to break my good motives,

Sometimes I cry in my bed because the story am trying to built is just not the way I want it to be,

Even though I fall victim of negativity alot of times I never allow it to drain me,

I will rise up and go to the mirror and say to myself,

My story will make others story worthwhile not wayward.

No matter the dark in the day, morning will come and my story will be brighter and wider than my imagination.

This is my story.

@jaysteve

Value

Each human being has Value.

Is good to be with people that add value to your life and you add value to theirs,

Sometimes you have to go out of that circle so that you add value to those that will not be able to add value to you but at least they will say God bless you which is the value.

But being around those people that want to drain your value so that you worship them or be in same value with them is actually not good.

Because such people are liabilities to you or will want you to be a liability to them so they control you.

So in as much as you want to share value,

Don't be too emotional about it,

Be calculative and see it clear that you do not drain yourself and come back to built that value again.

Think well before you act.

Always weigh the good and the bad site of the action you are about to take before you move.

@jaysteve

Be Strong

Be_Strong

 

Everybody is passing through Alot,

But we all have to learn to tell God thank you,

Imagine being born in a family that lives in a village and your parents are so poor,

To a point that with all the farming,

One square meal is a problem,

Payment of your school fees is a problem,

Are you going to say God is not fair for bringing you in such family?

Imagine being born in a family where by your dad is dead and your mum is left with the responsibility of taking care of all of you,

With all her struggles and hard work,

Life kept getting rocky for you all,

Will you say God don't love you is not fair?

Imagine Unknown gun men attacking and killing alot of your relatives and destroying your farm lands,

Will you still say God is not fair?

Listen to me every human being you are watching out there has what is eating him/her inside,

Forget about the package clothes,

if someone sits you down and tells you what their families are passing through,

You will wish you can solve all their problems and wipe their tears but you can't.

Must atimes your enemies will bury you and keep matching on you,

Forgetting you are a seed that won't die,

One day that seed of you will come out,

It will grow and become a thick strong tree,

You shall bear fruits and all the pains of yesterday will just be a throw back story,

No matter what you are passing through your  consistent thankful heart to God has the power to change your story for good,

You Hold on to the Most High God and never give up hope,

You will be delayed but you will not be denied,

Because the best your enemy can do is to kill you,but the good news is unless God says you are finished no man born of a woman has to right to end you.

Keep going higher and never stop.

@jaysteve

YOU CALL HIM BROKE GUY

BROKE_Guy

You called him broke guy,

But he has never come to you and say please I need a trouser,

He has never come to you and say my dear,please give me food I have not eaten for 2 days,

He has never come to your place and say my dear,I don't have gas and I don't have pocket money,

You called him broke guy,

But he has never take you on a date without paying the bills,

He has never allow you to enter Keke without payment of the bills,

He always tries to call you everyday and text you everyday,

Yet!

You call him broke guy,

You call him broke guy,

Because he was unable to give you all you ask for,

You call him broke guy because you compare him with other men asking you out,

You called him broke guy because you try to make him dance to your own style of music,

But he was sincere enough to tell you this is who I am and this is what I can afford,

You called him broke guy because he doesn't have all the fancy things you've projecting the guy you are dating should have,

Hey lady,

Can't you see that your definition of a broke guy is totally selfish and greedy,

You are meant to compliment the one you love and not to discourage and reduce him to to nothing,

If he can't pay the bills,why can't you pay the bills and teach him how to become better,

Stop condemning the guy,

Simply because he can't meet up with your definition of a guy to date,

All the reason you have that makes you call him a broke guy,

Why can't you teach him or be as rich as the imagination of a rich guy you have in your head,

You need to know that all fingers are not equal,

The least you can do is to encourage that guy to do better and not to Castigate him to ground.

You called him a broke guy but the last time I check,

He feeds himself,

Pays his bills,clothed himself and still move with his pocket money,

What about you?

Can he call you a broke girl or a lazy girl,

Or an extractor of his sweat or a liability?

Why cant you allow him call you my motivator or my Asset.

Kudos to guys out there because my fellow men are trying and they are not lazy.

@jaysteve

For Guys

Guys_Be_Guided

Where your Treasure is that is where your heart is.

Most of you guys today bite more than you can actually chew,

You just met a lady today and the next thing is,you spend alot of money on her,

The first thing you need to know is;

1. That lady has not marry you yet.

2. You are just dating her and you are not even sure if you and her will end up together.

3. You are spending with the hope that she understands when maybe she is just taking you as a friend or just a bestie as the name implies today.

You kept spending on her and refused to calculate,

Everything you are doing,you should do it with caution guys,

There is no way you will keep spending on that lady and say that you don't love her completely,

The truth will definitely burst out one day and you will be the one in pain,

If you are spending on a lady,

Be definite about it,

Don't just spend,know why you are doing what you are doing,

If you know that is a friendly spending do it well but don't go too deep to the point that it will pain you.

So you need to careful 

The reason why so many guys today use to find difficult and heartbroken is because;

You don't define the your spending on that lady,

Listen;

What you definite,

Will definitely have a limit that you cant cross,

But the fact that you spend without calculation and definition,

that is why you always find yourself in pains,

If that lady gets to marry another guy.

Or maybe she leaves you.

So don't be careless and blinded by love so that when it balls back on you,

You can accept and take it to heart.

Remember;

Where your treasures is that is where your heart is.

So please don't go and give all your treasures to a lady you did not marry.

Alot of people became frustrated and even commit suicide due to this small act.

Finally;

Be wise and apply wisdom in every act you take in life so that you will not be a victim of a problem that will get you frustrated to the point you will start thinking of commiting suicide.

Because we love you and we don't want to loose you to the wind without you doing what you were born to do.

@jaysteve

BEAUTY

BEAUTY

Every lady is actually beautiful out there,

The ones you see as not beautiful,

Is because they did not get the packaging that is needed.

If only the ones you see will get package like those ladies you see as beautiful,

They will be beautiful,

Most of the ladies you see today,

Only do packaging and that is why they look good,

So if you see a lady that is not beautiful in your eyes and you like her but she is just not attractive to you,

Package her in a little way you can,

It must not be in the way everybody is doing it,

If you put compitition in what you are doing you will definitely not get what you prayed for but what you wanted and not a need,

If you just package that lady you see as someone that is not beautiful,

she will definitely look good and you will be surprise that her attraction to your heart will even pass the one you had crush on.

What am trying to say is;

Don't do it too big,

Just do it in the way you can,

and you will see what will happen,

Every lady out there wants to look like a model but the only thing that some of them don't have is the chance to look that beautiful as they want,

What makes us grow and effective as human beings is the ability to help solve human being problems.

So if you see a problem and you can solve it,

Just do it in the way you can and if you do it you will be happy that you did and the joy that comes with satisfying a problem will definitely fill your heart.

@jaysteve