#You_need_this
When the object of your boyfriend's commitment is beauty,shape and form,when those things are not there,change is constant to you.
Same apply to those believing your vision. The day the vision crash they go but as long as the vision stands they dont care if you die,because they know it will help them achieved something.
That is why some ladies marry and say,I know why I marry him,as long as the object of there commitment is alive which is "money" they dont care if the husband dies.
Most atimes we get relationship problems with our Pastors,friends,family and the people around us because our focus is on there vision or what we can gain from them and not person to person commitment which is true love.
And let me tell you something;
Do you know the pharisees and the Sadducees are not friends but when Jesus came they drop there differences and come together and fight Jesus.
That is how some people call friends are to you,
They don't love you,they dont care about your vision but when there is a bigger enemy they try to come close to you,so that you guys fight together and after that they go there ways.
We will not escape such people in our lives but we need to be careful how we open our mouths and talk to people.
Never show everything about you to every body that comes into your live,if not they will be same people that will come back and kill you tomorrow and take what you have.
Be careful,
Know those that are close to you,
Know the people that can stand by you.
So many people have thrown away those that are real friends to them because;
They feel they have no money,
They have not go to school etc.
May God give us eyes to see,who we should reveal ourselves to and who not to reveal ourselves too.
@jaysteve